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NOTE: I currently
only have one opening for one-on-one coaching
(09/04/2014)
Today
there seems to be a Life Coach on every corner...
and
it's possible to find a coach for virtually any
aspect of your life... or if you're looking for a second
career, are between jobs and unemployed... maybe you can
coach?
Coaches are now being
certified by a host of training companies, with
programs that teach and certify them to be a life coach,
or a what-ever coach to others... These companies supply all the
right forms and a template structure of questions to
ask their clients...
...questions that guide you to
organize your to-do list, clarify goals, do
more in less time, how manage your career or your boss, feung shui your office or your home, organize your
closet, increase your connection the spiritual... to
finding the career of your dreams and have you step into
your financial destiny...
The problem with most
coaching...
With so many people now
calling themselves a coach, the concept has been diluted
to the point of almost being meaningless... many have
never demonstrated verifiable results in their own life,
or others... and most operate with the directive to be
non-directive, in other words... not tell you what to do,
but question you get the answers from yourself. This
pulling the answers from within you is a strategy that
definitely has it's merits in the right context, but if
you want quick results, this method of inquiry may be
too slow.
First is it's cookie
cutter, one size fits all approach. You are unique.
Traditional
coaching is
a very politically correct Socratic questioning process,
laborious in nature, (second) spending a lot of time developing a
co-dependant relationship... and in my estimation,
(third) glorifies the power of your conscious mind to choose in
your best interest. If that were the case, you would
already have what you want.
If you're currently not
experiencing the results you want, in my experience it's
actually your conscious decision making process that's at
fault. What you call your 'conscious mind', in all
honesty, is little more than a collection of knee-jerk habitual
and learned responses to the typical problems you face in
life.
The breakdown in generating the desired results
in your life occurs when the mental maps and strategies
you have on file in your mind... simply aren't working
in the area you want to impact. There is a GAP between
how you are being andd how you want to BE. What's required is a whole new level
of thinking, acting and being...
Why I'm
probably NOT a good coach....
but could be the Jedi
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Once we agree on a destination that works for you, I may often bypass
your conscious mind and work directly with your
other-than-conscious. Which means...
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You may not always
know or understand at first, consciously, the "Why" behind
what I do... or the "what" I ask of you... but you will like the
results.
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Initially there's more
time getting background information, finding out how
your unique brain works... after that I can work
with laser precision.
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I'm more
expensive than most, but not the most expensive.
It will take a
commitment to
partnership with me because I guarantee my results...
that's my commitment... and failure is not an
option.
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I won't be your guru,
and I'm not into babysitting, hand holding or consider it my job to simply make you feel better about your life.
It's about results. You CAN feel good about the
results we get.
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It's possible I may choose
to not work with you. I only have so much time and
I'm selective. Our partnership has to be a win-win.
I only work with a handful of people at a time. If
I'm booked... you could wait awhile.
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I can be confronting
in holding you accountable. I'm not going to listen
to your stories of "Why not and why you didn't, or
why you couldn't..." Along the way, you may
not
always like me, but in the end you'll love me.
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I may not always ask
questions, if I see a shorter more direct path...
I'll tell you exactly what to do and sometimes you
won't want to do it. The difference is I have an
experienced objective point of view. I have insight
where you have a blind spot. My response is... then
suffer while you stumble thru it.
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As an expert and
over 30 years in communicating with the
other-than-conscious,
I have a far greater respect for the rest of your
mind than I do your conscious mind. Don't be
offended... I just know who the real boss of you
is...
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Did I say... I guarantee my
results AND I am committed to having fun doing serious work.
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Email me to ask about
applying for a coaching agreement. First consulting
conversation is free...
coach@dneuville.com
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